Self Love and Relationships

Your most important sale in life is to sell yourself to yourself. – Maxwell Maltz

Hello guys! In this post I’ll be sharing my opinion regarding relationships. A lot of committed people today have problems regarding their love life. If you too are in that crowd, just read this post. I might just be able to help! 

The first thing you need to know is that there is no challenging relationship than that with yourself. You relationship with your partner can be no better than the relationship with yourself. The primary relationship is with yourself, all others are mirrors of it. As you learn to love and accept yourself, you will automatically receive the appreciation and love you desire from others. If you are committed to yourself, you will receive equal commitment from others. 

If you don’t see your worth, you’ll always choose people who don’t see it either. That will leave you feeling rejected. You need to speak for yourself. If there is something that your partner does you don’t like, you need to tell him so. Tell him to stop! If you don’t do this, he’ll understand that it is okay to do it again. Also, your brain too will adjust to this fact. 

 Your self love will lead you to happiness. No matter how much your partner tries to keep you happy, if you yourself are not happy from the inside you’ll not be able to see his/her efforts. This will lead to complications, arguments and stress. So don’t rely too emotionally on your love life to stay happy. 

Also, the final and most important thing is to analyze the kind of person you are becoming. See your future self and try to make the right decisions to get there. So if you feel that a relationship is not working for you, or is blocking your way to grow, then just discard that relationship for your own betterment. It might leave you in tears for a few days, but you’ll be fine. Believe me! 

Love yourself, stay happy and spread your wings. 😇